Thursday, August 27, 2009
Before hump day
Work has been very well, but I must admit that the "routine" setting in. I don't think it is a bad thing; as it is not bothering nor boring me, but rather a reality that just is. No surprises present themselves at work any more really. New prospective students do come in, but no one really makes any waves with their arrivals or departures or anything like that. Its ok. At least my updates wont be as long anymore right? hehe
Today was particularly nice though. My kids class has a girl that is very quiet and usually never does anything to disrupt the class. She barely even participates really. Anywho, I have tried to pay a little extra attention to her in and out of class to she if she will become a bit less shy. It seems to have worked. She was such a character today LOL. She was tired and would randomly throughout the class utter this very tired, or even incredulous, sounding aaaahhhhhh. It was so cute that I couldn't be bothered. I hope this means she is getting more comfortable with me and the class and maybe can even improve a bit more now.
After work, I went with a co worker and some of the students to the Everest kitchen (my favorite curry place here) and enjoyed fine dinner with really good company and lots of laughs & smiles. It was a perfect way to end the day.
Looking forward to tomorrow ^_^
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
took waaaaay too long!
Last weekend I found myself in Tokyo; not once, but twice again lol. On Friday, I went to Akihabara to see what it was about and then went clubbing by myself in Shibuya. Akihabara really is the computer nerd and anime fanatic center of Japan. There were shops with that kind of merchandise EVERYWHERE. Good thing I am no computer nerd or Anime geek, I totally would have dropped too much cash on that exploration. Though I will be going back if I am ever to have any electronic needs =P.
The clubbing was fun. I got into this fun place called “Club Atom” at around 1145 and didn't leave until they closed at five in the morning. I made some nightlong friends with a group of Japanese folks and just danced the night away with them in the Hip hop/RB room. The played nothing but American music and about 85 percent of the music was stuff I really liked. No real report bout girls that night though. You know how lame I can be hehe. I will be hitting that club again for sure!
Sunday, I met up with some friends in Shinjuku and we had an awesome lunch. It was a place where we made our own food again. I have found that I really enjoy places like that. We then headed over to Harajuku to check out the Meiji Jingu Shrine. As usual, it was quite beautiful and a very peaceful place to be regardless of the noisy foreigners that were there -_- After that we did Karaoke for three hours in Shibuya. It was a blast! We just kept going and ended up having another lunch there in the room we were singing in. I have been trying to learn songs in Japanese so I can do them at Karaoke and apparently the practice paid off a tiny bit. I tried a song in Japanese and my friends seemed to have been really surprised at how well I sang it. They said I didn't even have an accent. Crazy. That was a good time. We then went to TGIF and I finally got my giant American style margarita. It tasted just like home and every sip felt like a vacation. Actually, the TGIFs here look exactly the same as those in the US and the Menus are completely in English. I totally felt like I was back in America at that place.
On Monday I slept in and cleaned the apartment till I went rock climbing with my homie in the evening. It was also a good time and an interesting continuous conversation. We had lots of interesting things to discuss. As for the workweek, it was a good one with no outstanding news I can remember, but that is probably cause I have taken so long to write this. As usual the workweek is one big compilation of small happy moments with students and co-workers that doesn't really leave the office and is too much to report in detail.
Geh, I need to stop being lazy and do this daily. The break really threw into a lazy bout last week 0_0
This weekend was good even though it started a little late. I ended up having to work on Sunday, but it was a good time and no bother at all. I got to teach two special classes. One on business English and the other on “American music.” I actually did enjoy myself. After classes, I hung out with my manager and one of the students for a while and chatted it up at Mister Doughnuts. It was fun. Then I once again took myself to club atom and danced the night away. A good time like the others ^_^ I made more friends and this time I have even kept touch with them after the club.
Today was nothing special as I slept most the day away, did the laundry, and cleaned. Though short, it was a good weekend and from here on, I don't want to fall back on my updating anymore. NO MORE EXCUSES!
Friday, August 14, 2009
whew
Wow . . . A week has gone by fast. That happens though, when one is recovering from losing one day out of their weekend and then starting their vacation the following weekend.
Basically, the day after I wrote that crazy angry rant, I was over it and equipped with a new attitude on how to approach how I do my job. From that day till now, I have been doing my best to do everything in my job “by the book.” Of course I am not perfect and I adjust certain things according to certain situations, but I will be giving nothing for anyone to notice in terms of trainers or any one else above me. Who knows; maybe the students will learn better this way.
A funny teaching experience did arise. On Friday, one of my kids’ classes was reduced from 6 to 2 and it went really easy and well. Both of the boys are really smart and they were very enthusiastic about participating. Since there were only two of them, there was more time to play and I taught them two variations of handshakes one might see in the states. One was the version where you bump fists three times and the other was the one where you smack hands 3 times and end up in a hand-shake/half-hug. They really seemed to like it and one of them tried it on his Mom when we got downstairs. It was really cute and a handful of the other kids wanted to learn it. Haha, it really was one of those precious moments for me. Even the parents were entertained. One even asked if that is how Americans great each other. I told her that boys often do, but boys and girls usually hug if anything.
On Saturday we celebrated two coworkers’ birthdays that are going down this week and the kick off of our vacations. The day (as well as the entire week for that fact) went really quickly and it was nice just to hang out with my co-workers and some of the students amidst the stress free atmosphere of the oncoming weeklong bout of freedom. There were cakes, laughs and well wishes and then we were all off and the break started. I had no plans for the night, but decided to go chill with some of my training mates in Yokohama for a drink. I was only there for about an hour and a half, as I could not miss the last train and just wanted out of the house for a bit. I wasn’t about to party hard the night before I would climb Mt. Fuji. Which turned out to be a memorable experience.
Since mid July, about 5 training mates and I decided that we wanted to climb Mt. Fuji. It had been one of the top things on my “to do” list since I had arrived here, and our first week long vacation was the perfect time to do so. It was fortunate that we had starting planning nearly a month in advance, as getting the tickets and everything else in order amidst working was a bit of a challenge. Everything ended up working out perfectly and we decided to climb up at night so we could get a good view of the sunrise. The only issue was our concern for weather and one of our group was even trying to get us to reschedule for this coming Sunday rather than last, but I didn’t really want to worry bout the weather or push it back. So, I admit being an idiot for not considering the weather more -_-
Sunday evening came around and everything was working like clockwork. Everyone was more or less on time and getting the tickets was a non-issue. We grabbed dinner and hung out in the area till the bus was to arrive. The bus ride up was uneventful, but pleasant and we were definitely anxious to get there. When we arrived, it was a bit foggy and the temperature was great. Some guys put their stuff in lockers and dawdled a bit and we were off. The initial climb was moderately challenging, and the weather was mild and still just foggy in spots. This lasted till the 7th (of 10) station and then the hike turned into a perilous adventure.
At around the 7th station, the moisture around the mountain decided to come down on us a little bit and the winds started picking up. Not a biggie. I put on my layers and everything was good (more or less) until the 9th station. At that point, it was just myself and one other mate that could manage our pace and the wind had really picked up and the rain was steady and cold. To top the situation off, all the shelters were closed at the station. We had to keep going. For anyone considering going up Fuji, you should know that the trail from the 9th station to the top was the hardest for me. It was long and really steep in many places. Not to mention the weather is severe as hell. On this final stretch, all my clothes had soaked through and the wind was sweeping all my body heat away. I was feeling the hypothermia creeping up on me. As we approached the top, I let my partner know I needed to hasten my pace or I would have been in danger. Thus, I rushed off and was at the top in a hurry. Of course all the shelters seemed closed, but I was so desperate that I was gonna break windows to escape the weather.
Fortunately, the door on one of the places wasn't locked. I got in quickly and stripped myself completely of all wet clothing (everything) and changed into dry ones. I shivered with my partner (who arrived after 10 minutes) till my body was back at a comfortable temperature. Turns out that the shelter was a sort of hotel and it cost about 65 bucks to stay. As we woke up the staff with our movement, they asked for the money and let us stay till 5. I was scared for a second as it looked like we might have been kicked out into the horrible weather that lasted all night. That would have sucked. Well, 530 came around and we headed out. I had bought a plastic rain suite at the shelter, and I was ready for the bad weather that had not let up still. We got down to the 5th station in like 2 hours and I managed to stay bone dry (thank god). The trip back home was long and I was exhausted, but proud to have overcome such an adventure. When I got home, I threw all of my wet gear in the bathroom, took a shower and slept.
Monday, I just chilled all day that day as well as Tuesday. I wanted to give my body optimum time to recover. I just cleaned and ran small errands in my town for both of those days. Wednesday was freakin awesome though. I went to the gym and then down to the city of Odaiba. It's a really cool place. There is super unique architecture everywhere and a 1/1-scale model Gundam mobile suit. The model is from a Japanese anime I enjoy and the nerd in me just had to see it. The trip was so worth it. I got plenty of pics of the gundam and explored Odaiba for few hours and soaked it all in as I walked around. Whoever comes to Japan should visit Odaiba for sure.
Yesterday was another chill day and I caught up with people from home mostly. Now I am about to head out the door to explore more of Tokyo that I haven’t seen yet. I’ll let you know how it goes!
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Curiosity pissed this cat off
What I discovered today was a policy that my company seems to have in place concerning how foreign trainers write a evaluation feedback form on the performance of foreign teachers at their follow up training. This training takes place within three months of a teacher’s arrival and apparently is meant to gauge how much a teacher has developed in their time here. Soon after (2 days in my case), the evaluation is sent to the manager and head teacher of a given foreign teacher’s school. I was given this feedback in person on Monday, but neither I nor any of the other teachers seemed to have been made privy to the fact that the managing staff at our schools were to be given this feedback. Though, I must admit I am not supposed to know of this and technically was sticking my nose where it didn’t belong. Regardless of that fact, fate decided that I should find out anyway . . . so there!
So the problem lies in the fact that the trainer wrote notes and comments on my performance throughout the day concerning what I need to improve on according to what she saw.
In her first note, she relays that “he seems to like to do his own thing in lessons. I stressed that students were getting confused in his lessons. . .”
How the hell does she know this? The only time I gave her hint that I “do my own thing” was in explaining one situation and that was an isolated case. She has no proof or direct experience of such a fact. Furthermore, she hasn’t spoken to a single one of my students about my lessons. Her only bases was how I tried to pretend that my training piers were Japanese, and I didn’t take the game 100% seriously. How the hell does she know if the actual students are confused or not?! Absolutely ludicrous.
In another note, she mentions how “ . . . he seems to not agree with the feedback.”
Well of course I am not going to agree with feedback that does not take into account the particular needs of my students or unique circumstances! She is basically saying that I “don't know my place” with her above criticism. I understand I am a complete newbie and am drowning in ignorance when compared to her experience. But just because she has a wealth of knowledge as a product of a wealth of experience, does not make her smarter than me. She has no right to treat me like I am freakin stupid or lack the ability to help my students learn. Especially when she doesn’t even know what their needs are.
She also has no reason to assume that I reject or even intend to reject the feedback of the staff at my school. My managers work hard and have a very informed idea of the needs of the students at my school. Any feedback they have ever given has been unquestioned thus far and that won’t change unless there is a rare occasion where they happen to be dead wrong. Ugh, I can’t believe she would through up such a yellow flag on me like that. Not what I need.
There is one more note to comment on, but I have lost interest in this tirade and it is pretty similar to the last note. Essentially I am trying to illustrate that this women assumed way too much based on circumstances and a situation completely removed from the reality of my particular school. Neither she, the other trainers, nor my training mates are Japanese, and I refuse to treat any of them like they are. I refuse to disrespect the Japanese culture in such a way. If you are a Japanese businessman, I will treat you much differently then a recent American college grad and will also behave differently in a room full of people who know the true meanings of my words. I wasn’t aware that I was supposed to be performing all day at follow up training, but rather thought I was supposed to be learning. Well, whatever . . . I am over it now and have lost interest to go on.
My only reason for being so bothered is that an important person has said I have problems I need to work on and I consider these problems to be serious. I am taking my job way too seriously for such accusations as these. These problems don’t exist in my school and actual lessons, but now my manager and head teacher might feel that they do and be watching out for these issues. This vigilance can lead to self-serving prophecy and I now fear the headache it could cause me. I think that fear explains why I was so ill affected earlier on. I now know and was earlier assured that I can prove this evaluation dead wrong. I just hope I get the proper chance to do so. I also hope that my managers bring this evaluation to my attention so I can tell the trainers how much I do not like their system of assuming they know everything about a teacher after merely watching them play pretend.
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Trainwreck
As I have said, Saturdays at work are usually the busiest and getting home somewhat fatigued is not an unusual thing. This week was no different, and I had originally prepared for this in planning to take advantage of some downtime before living up the weekend like I usually do. I had made plans with a friend from the US to meet up at around 1130ish, but those were drastically changed and moved up by two hours just as I got home from work. Thus, I spent an hour coordinating with other friends I had invited out and ended up rushing out the door in order to catch the right train to meet up. I should note I managed to not have dinner either . . . bad idea as some can imagine I'm sure.
I met up with my friends at the right spot and they had a beer for me on hand and I started drinking on the train -_- It was chill though and really nice to see my friend again. Though I felt kind of bad for all the Japanese people on the train. We were kind of loud and that is mildly (probably more) rude here. We had to switch trains along the way, and during our switch we made friends with a group of drunk Japanese people heading in a similar direction as us and finished our trip talking to them and having our fun. I felt less bad bout being loud since some actual Japanese had joined our banter. It was a fun trek.
We get to our destination with no ill affect and my coworker joined us not too long after we had arrived. The event we ended up at was in Enoshima on a peninsula that reminded me of something akin to how Coronado is connected to SD. The friend of one of my companions had rented out a bar, hired two crappy DJ's, and had the place open all night. Needless to say I got pretty drunk, acted plenty dumb, and had a good time. My coworker and I ended up leaving at around 445 for the first train heading back to our homes (after a nap hehe) and feeling rather hung-over. When I got home, I went straight to bed and woke up still not feeling at my best . . . ick. I NEED TO EAT BEFORE I DRINK!
I chilled for a bit in the apartment and handled some chores for a little while and was out the door after not too long. I went to Yokohama with a friend to check out "Egypt's Sunken Treasures," an archeological exhibition that had recently come to the area. It was mildly interesting, but I could not get over how crowded it was. Anything that could be read or just observed had a line one had to wait in to get a turn. Crazy stuff. We didn’t stay too long.
From there, we went rock climbing for a couple of hours at this gym that my companion stumbled on in her time here. It wasn't a gym with a tall wall(s), but rather a shorter facility with 8 different walls. Instead of just climbing on to any rock one sees, the gym labels the different grips according to color and shape in order to restrict and control the difficulty of certain climbing routes. It was actually really challenging, but a lot of fun at the same time. My forarms are still sore to be completely honest lol. Then we saw "The Half Blood Prince" right after. It is a long movie and I just managed to catch the last train home and wasn’t in bed until about 130 and had to be up at 730. I was not looking forward to it.
The reason I had to be up early was for another follow up training for my job. No biggie, but the trick about the situation was that it was located in a city that took me about an hour and 45 minutes to get to. Thus, I was up early and riding hella packed trains as I was riding during peak use hours (both ways). It is quite the adventure. The training was all right, but I found something that was bugging me bout the trainers. Something always rubbed me wrong when I was around them actually, and I finally pinpointed what it was that was vexing me. For the sake of professionalism (I assume), they are fake as hell with us. I understand to do that may important in maintaining harmony between Japanese and foreign staff at the schools, but it just bothers me that the trainers can’t even level with us. Neither they nor us are Japanese, and them acting the way they do makes me feel like I am being treated like a child or a customer that cannot handle honesty. I know I am a weirdo, but I find it disrespectful. I am glad I don’t have to work in a situation under them for a long time if ever again.
Anyway, since the training ended at 8:00, I got home late and just went to bed as I was totally drained and really out of it. The fatigue even carried over into today, but I attribute that more to my body trying to recover my assaulted arm and back muscles that were still achy. Hopefully I will be back to normal in the morning. School was good. Tuesdays aren’t particularly busy for me and today was a good day as any. One funny thing was I found out that one of my students likes Tom Cruise. I thought it funny and immediately thought of my Mom. I even told the student that my Mom liked him. I like moments like that ^_^
Well I am gonna head off now. I hope all is well and this catches you amidst good times <3>